No. The bedroom is simply the ambush location. The black female knows that you are not expecting a confrontation, in bed. The black male never even considers the fact that the bed is the ambush location.
She does this to manipulate her sex buddy into game play. A game that he can't win. The female has something on her mind that has nothing to do with the argument she presents.
Red Flag #1 - "Why did you say you _______?"
Red Flag #2 - "Who was that girl you were speaking with?
Red Flag #3 - "When are you going to ______?"
If you complain about being tired, she will say that you don't care about the relationship and proceed to throw some kind of fit or pity party. If you engage, your goose is cooked because she's prepared for this confrontation and you have had no such preparation.
She may have another male she wants to see or is covering up some form of betrayal.
If this happens, seek help immediately.
"Everybody's got a plan until they get hit."